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With that said, you can from this moment stop caring what everbody is thinking of you! It doesn’t matter, you for your surroundings is maximum 50% you, the other 50% depends on them. So why the fuck care? Excuse my language. The main thing is to be your own best friend. You have to live with you every single day, so don’t let yourself down, don’t hate yourself, don’t do anything that’s contrary to your values and beliefs. Love yourself and make yourself proud. Be the best version of you, so when people don’t like you it’s because of their dissatisfaction of themselves not of you.
So, I’m not going to have a dashing presentation about myself. You’ll soon enough create me while reading my blog, and I believe you’ll have a more accurate idea of who I am, then my friends and family. Or maybe not. Why? Well because for you I am a product of you.
Call Me Free 
Love your philosophy. I. too, see myself and others as individuals and not labels. Putting people into groups divides us. Respecting individuals enough to let them be themselves brings us together while allowing us the freedom to be unique. Warmest wishes. :)
Thank you It’s always nice to hear from like-minded. I am fascinated over how many places you’ve been visited and I enjoyed reading about them, especially interesting to see Helsinki from your point of you when I myself am from Finland. Take care! :)
Thanks for your visit to Discover Santosha today. You are so right that we see the world from our own perspective and past experiences. We must always remind ourselves not to let that make us judgmental and closed off to others.
Thank you!
I like your posts, So nailed to the truth.
Thank.you very much!
Thanks Jennifer for checking out my site and blogs and thanks for your work too. Grace
Right back at you!
Best wishes
Jennifer
Thanks for stopping by my blog today! SO….you like MJ as much as me?? My heart is still mourning of a loss to Soon……What a Unique blog, and Thank you for speaking the words that are sometimes in my own Heart. I truly believe GOD loves all, NO, I’m not a bible thumper, but I do have Faith in him, WHY you ask??
I’m his *Miracle*…..people say they don’t see him do them anymore, I say their Blind, I’m a walking, living, breathing miracle. From where I was in my life…..to where I am now??, is nothing but a HUGE Blessing. I don’t care what others think of me, nor do I judge by color, race, religion, sexual preference, or any of that…..THAT’S way above my Pay~grade, and that’s the lord’s job not mine.
I try to be kind to all who walks into my path……. *Author, Catherine Lyon*
I think so! MJ was a true music genius. Thank you for your nice words and comment. We all have our own beliefs and I really indulge you yours. Take care!
<3 :-) :-) You TOO!
Oh, a MJ fan ? got to share this ….had the privilege of having one of MJ’s backup dancers as friend…still in touch off and on…a great dancer, of course as we both went to the same West African music&dance school in NYC :)
Yep! Nice! It must have been wonderful for her/him! Thank you for sharing :)
Such beautiful words!! Love thy self: one of the things most people often neglect. Thanks for stopping by my blog :) …o_O
Thank you! Ye and it’s such a shame! Np I really enjoy your writing!
Jennifer, our worldview is always formed by our experiences. As much as we like to think we are “open and non-judgmental” our narrow lens always focuses in. I like your view: Focus on loving yourself, no one will love you more.
Thank you for stopping by Guma Ifit. I write it mostly as a journal. Appreciate those who stop by. Best wishes to you!
Yes exactly, I’m not saying I’m nonjudgmental more like the opposite. I’m fast to prejudge because I’m a good people knower. But of course, I’m wrong in many cases and feel very ashamed over my prejudice of someone. Still I love when people prove me wrong it makes me feel hope in the humanity.
Thank you, take care!
Thanks for stopping by my blog… You have a lovely one here. I am not a man nor woman. Not black or white…. Loved these lines.
Keep your self esteem high, love yourself, follow your beliefs…
Keep up the good work.
Thank you! I loved your post “Let such world be in real not in dreams”
Take care!
Very interesting.
Our imaginations can run the gambit. We can invent you and then re-invent you. Nice approach.
Thanks for the “like” on my blog.
Thank you for visiting my blog!!!
The same, hope you’ll come back!
Sure will!!!!
It makes me very glad to hear!
Wise words and certainly the way to live.
Thank you :)
Thanks for “liking” , reading and following my posts. I appreciate you.
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Great philosophy! You really do need to take care of yourself first, and no one should make you feel guilty or selfish for it. Kudos to you for embracing this thinking!! :)
Thank you! Think how easy it would be if everybody token care of themselves, then all would have someone who takes care of them! :)
Thanks for liking my post, and, what a delight to find your site!
Thank you!
Thanks to like my post…!
cheers
peace out!
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Ah so refreshing to hear! I love you! :)
:D Thank you!
You’re really Finnish? Small world, so is my sister.
Yep, it really is! From where in Finland?
Her grands are from Helsinki as well.
Ah cool!
Well said. It was a unique point of view to topics I have considered lately.
Wish you all the best =)
Thank you, all the best to you as well! :)
Fantastic Jennifer!! I love how you “break it down” when it comes to loving yourself. I’m still “work in progress”, however, I have learned a few things in this process. 1. You can never be lonely If you like who alone with. 2. I am incapable of “giving away” what i don’t yet have for myself; including loving others unconditionally. 3. It is NOT your job to like me or love me; that’s MY job. “I’m not where I used to be, I’m not yet where I “think” I want to be, but God’s not done with me yet and neither am I. big HUGZS, jen >_/l\_
Thank you for this one! Good luck with your progress, when you learn to love and appreciate yourself you’ll really feel a calm, a peace, a strenght. Take care, hugs to you!
Hey Jennifer, your writing is confident and your blog is daringly you, wonderful:)! Thanks for the visit, it led me to a strong sense of you, all the best, and by the way, I honestly enjoyed reading Law of Jante: You’re not to think you are anything special – Well said xx
Cool, I’m glad! I really appreciate you for writing me this, thank you! :)
xo
Thanks for the visit.
Well, Jennifer, I have never seen a bio / About Me page … like yours. I took time to read some of the comments: most encouraging. I’m looking forward to going over to your posts to read some of those. Authenticity is one of the words that comes as I read your bio. I appreciate your commitment to be true to yourself, your unswerving journey of living out your own story (not the stories of others). I want to thank you for stopping by Other Side of the Trees, specifically to read my post “Be Real, Please”. About 2-3 sentences into your bio, I could see why you had some degree of appreciation for what I felt led to write about (the woman who has a tragic desire to “be Barbie”. You are in the realm of authenticity. Apologize for this long comment. Sometimes, it just happens. I guess it is part of my own “authenticity”. Peace, T
No, thank you for the long comment! I appreciate it, I appreciate you. Keep up the good writing. All the best to you, peace.